Straight acting assholes have been giving their remarks yadda yadda about lesbians everywhere they go, no? I'm not going to lie but I think this is a fun thing to do ya'll.

Anyway, first thing first. I don't know about you but I seriously agree that the things which are annoying me (and for some) in general in talking to other lesbians is the coyness and hot and cold ways of talking and sometimes they talk to you alot and other times days in between talking.

I wonder if this is true or other wise. The hot and cold and coyness straight act people experience is all part of what is referred to in lesbian circles as "dyke drama". There is a lot of insecurity among women and we're not used to being up front with each other. There are social norms in the heterosexual world that indicate to us how lesbians supposed to behave. Lesbians don't have those kinds of indicators, no? Imagine two lesbians at a dance, for instance. Which one asks the other to dance if you were to ask?

I've always been of the opinion that you can't go wrong with real communication and you can never say too clearly where you're coming from. Misunderstandings and misconceptions are major trouble so it's always best to remove those obstacles.

Perhaps, it will be great if we be ourselves and if you find others tend to misunderstand our intentions we should say so. People make assumptions and jump to conclusions for lack of specific information so be clear and repeat as necessary.

I doubt you'll find the drama levels will change any, though. Imagine a roomful of women all at various stages of emotional and hormonal disarray. Then throw in the phase of the moon, the position of the planets and the prevailing wind or whatever and we have chaos after that.

It will take some time for us to adjust to lesbian culture so relax, my dear people, keep your feet on the ground and enjoy ourselves. All the best. But still, lesbians are bitches who should fuck themselves.